Orgasms & Equality

Let’s cut to the chase.  

I am galled, and pretty steamed today, having encountered men, repeatedly, who label women as sluts, simply because the girl is getting some. The heat is on Taylor Swift, presently being battered with a Lindsay Lohan comparison, as if there’s something morally wrong, or unclean, about either of those two ladies getting it on. Why are they constantly under ‘slutspicion?

Men are picking up women whenever they feel like it. What is wrong with women enjoying the same privilege (what privilege!)? To each his own.

Some people eat pork, others don’t, and some eat no meat at all. Hold on! That’s not a good comparison; those three groups are at each others throats. Let’s stick to the point. Men have a problem with women having sex. Men have a problem with images of women having sex with someone other than them (free pass for porno). They even have a problem with women having sex with themselves. Men act like sex is the last bastion of manhood, where ‘the stud’ roams free, sacred ground on which emancipation must not stand; a Sistine Chapel of ‘studspicious’ characters.

I am tired of ‘certain‘ men, and jealous, rigid, livid pious women, disparaging their counterparts in the worst way for living their humanity to the fullest. Sexual desire is inborn, in man and woman alike, gender, or religion, doesn’t make it evil or good; it is what it is. Women don’t need your respect, they need what men have miraculously for millenia reserved for ourselves: orgasms and equality.

Woman is undoubtedly, the most beautiful experience we, as men, will ever have. But it’s her choice, she chooses to give us that experience. We seek to bend her to our will, to control the game – a madman’s fantasy.

We can’t subdue women (we can try), neither should we stand in their way, or that way will never lead to us. So you haters! Step aside, for the playa in the dress.

Try the poster love machine <<drinks on da house.

14 Responses to “Orgasms & Equality”
  1. I’d hate to hear you when you’re really cross…
    I liked this post. But I must take issue. Not all men see women in the way you describe. I sure don’t.

    • lexborgia says:

      D, I obviously wasn’t aiming for you; I know you love women and hold them in very high regard, especially ‘a certain one.’ The guilty ones know who they are; they’re like rats in the cellar. We tend to be passive about it, but I was absolutely pissed off yesterday: I wrote this post in 10min and posted it immediately, the 1st time I’ve ever done that. I just needed to get it off my chest… and put it on yours. Cheers.

      • Intrigued. Who is the ‘certain one’?
        I do mad rants like that too. Hit the keybpoard then hit Send before you lose your nerve.
        Coolio dude. I’m no fan of the Lohans of this world, but thy have a right to do what they want. I hate blokes who refer to ‘slappers.’ I’ve come close to getting into fights about this, and I haven’t had a fight since I was 14.
        C’mon. Put me out of my misery. who is the ‘certain one,?

        • lexborgia says:

          You did say your fondest memory was saying “I do!” Talk to the hand? Miss B! Or did you say ‘I do’ several times?(lol). Regardless, it is a pleasure to consort with a kindred sprit, one who loves, respects and knows ‘how to’ enjoy the best that life has to offer. Women are the pinnacle of life – if you can climb. Watch the falling rocks. Cheers.

  2. Bastet says:

    Well, I couldn’t have said it better myself, wonderful post, and I’m reblogging you for my English Converstion page…thanks.

  3. Bastet says:

    Reblogged this on Bastet and Sekhmet and commented:
    Very rarely does one read a male who would give a woman her equality..rarer still one who would give her an orgasm…something to think on… 😉

  4. Bastet says:

    Oops mean sharing with on my English Converstion page…though also reblogging

    • lexborgia says:

      Glad you liked it and thanks for the reblog. Not sure what you mean by ‘sharing,’ – the last time someone ‘shared’ one of my posts it didn’t end well for them.

  5. Bastet says:

    Well now, seems you know about me…and yes, I enjoyed your post very much and decided to Nominate you for the Liebster Award! Info: but of course you’ve got the pingback, you lucky dawg! Cheers.

  6. makagutu says:

    well said brother. I can’t agree more

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